"It was the last night that she would breathe the same air as he, or look out over the deep sea and up into the star-blue heaven. A dreamless, eternal night awaited her, for she has no soul and had not been able to win one."
Kristen Mcmenamy stars as a lost mermaid in on of my FAVORITE editorials, “Far, Far From Land” for W December 2013 by photographed by the one and only, Tim Walker
The incredible mermaid tail was created by The Mertailor.
If you don’t think that snakes are the cutest things, then you need to take a good, hard look at your life choices. [x]
every year effie asks if the victor christmas party has to be this much of a struggle and every year the answer is yes
‘Harry Potter’ Book Covers Recreated As Minimalistic Mesmerizing GIFs
by designer and illustrator Jace Martinez
On policing sexuality and identity
I just watched Tom Daley’s coming out video, in which he talks about his current relationship with a man, and why he felt like it was important to talk about it now, in a video on his own youtube channel, rather than doing a talk show or a magazine cover. It’s a really lovely video, touching and sincere and almost painfully honest at points. And one of the things that stood out to me was his awareness that people would think that he had been a liar in the past, presumably for having said that he was straight or dated girls.
I think that one of the most negative consequences of policing public figures’ sexualities and identity is that it actually makes it harder for people to come out, if in fact they discover or realize later in life that they’re not straight. A constant commentary of, “Oh, he must be gay, because he’s effeminate/a diver/a dancer/really good friends with a gay dude” isn’t creating an atmosphere of support or a welcoming community. It’s creating boxes that people are forced to either fit into or reject. This is true for non-famous people as well, of course, but it’s even harder for those in the public eye, whose romantic entanglements are already gossip fodder. Saying, “WE ALL KNOW THAT YOU’RE GAY,” is a shitty fucking thing to say to or about a person, regardless of what that person’s identity is, or how supportive you would be if in fact they were gay.
People’s sexualities are fluid. Sometimes one person can change everything. Sometimes people really don’t know until they’re in their twenties or thirties or forties or beyond that they’re not straight, and that can be true without it meaning that they were lying to themselves or the world. And no one gets to declare what someone else should identify as, ever.
On a related note, we don’t know what Tom identifies as. We know that he’s dating a guy and that he fancies girls. That probably makes it more likely that he identifies as bisexual than gay, and I’m more comfortable with news organizations identifying him as bisexual than gay, because that incorporates more of the information he stated in his video, but the reality is he may not identify as bisexual OR gay. We just don’t know. And it’s not actually his job to fulfill our desire to be able to put a label on him.
“I loved her against reason, against promise, against peace, against hope, against happiness, against all discouragement that could be.”